5 reasons you should not ask a married couple about having a baby

 

 

The most common question every married couple encounter after getting married is “Do you have any good news?”. This encounter starts just after one month of getting married. They are chased by this question everywhere they go. As a member of a society or as a well wisher of the couple we might be excited for knowing about their baby, but there are some reasons we should not ask them about their personal things.

1.Its embarrassing : Having a baby is a matter of privacy between the couple. Asking about other’s personal life to them is totally embarrassing. Interfering in someone’s life does not look good if you are a respectable person. Even if they are close to you don’t embarrass them with such questions until they are ready to talk about it.

2. It stresses them: When everyone in the society keeps on asking the same question, it stresses the couple which makes their life worse. Stress in one of the factor for infertility. So, when they want to have a baby your constant question will pressurise them which might make it difficult for them to have a baby. Kindly, let them have a peaceful journey in their marriage life.

3.We don’t live their life: Everyone has a life of their own. Everyone have their own problems which we are not aware of. For a married couple there might be any problem in having a baby. They might have any financial problem, they might be getting treatment for fertility, they might not be mentally prepared to have a baby, they might had a miscarriage or there might be any other problem in their lives. But only if we live their life we will get to know how difficult it is to live in this judgmental society.We don't walk in their shoes to judge them. As a human being we have to support each other. Let them live their life. They might already have a problem. Don’t add yourself as a problem in their life.

4. Its their choice: It is solely the decision of a couple to decide when to have kids, how many kids they want, whether they want kids or not. It should not be anyone’s decision to force them to have a baby. If they are going to have a baby, only they are going to make them grow, they are going to spend their money and time, not us. So, it’s not our choice to tell them to have a baby.

5.None of our business: Even as a well wisher or a relative its none of our business to get involved in other’s lives. So, let’s focus on our unfinished business and stop interfering in other’s personal matter.

To conclude, let us keep in mind these reasons before encountering someone with our embarrassing questions.