6 Signs which shows that you are falling out of love

 

Falling in love with the person for the first time makes you feel amazing. Those moments you spend with that person for the first few days would be very special and exciting. But as the time goes the butterflies you feel in your stomach, the increase in your heart beat starts to fade away slowly. This usually happens after you get married to the person you love or after you have a baby. Let’s see some of the signs which clearly show that you start to fall out of love and you need to work through that.

1.      You no longer spend time with each other: In the initial stage of your love, you always wanted to spend time with your love. You would have put a lot of effort just to spend an hour with them. But after few years you don’t feel like to spend time with each other. You start to avoid to spend time with them.You ignore them. Spending time with them is no longer a concern for you,which is one of the sign you are starting to fall out of  love.

2.    Conversation between each other had been reduced: When you were in love for the first time with each other, you both love to talk with each other without any limit. But after you get married you find them talking with you makes you bored or even irritated. So you start to reduce your conversation with each other. This leads to the lack of communication which is the key for a happy relationship.

 

3.  There is no intimacy between you in recent times: Physical intimacy is a key for a healthy relationship. It helps you to connect deeper with each other. At the initial stage of your relationship you can’t keep your hands out of each other. But when you no longer want to be physically intimate with each other, it is time for you to consider about the reasons and start to work on it to rejuvenate your relationship.

 

4.     Not excited to be with each other: There will always be a spark of magic between you which gives you excitement when you were with each other. But once, you feel that there is no spark, you will have no more excitement which shows you that you are falling out of love.

5.   Your priority changes: As the relationship gets older, especially after marriage or after having a baby, you don’t get time to spend with each other. But when you get time, instead of being with each other, you just scroll your mobile, start to watch TV,spend time with your friends or colleagues. You start to give priorities to other things than to give priority to your relationship.

6.   You no longer use those special words: Saying “I love you”, calling each other with cute nicknames is a part of a happy relationship. But, when you start to fall out of love, you eventually stop saying, “love you” when you hung up your phone, start to call each other formally. This is one of the sign you need to refresh your relationship.

                It is a phase of life where you will face these changes which you never expected to happen. But it might happen to most of us, it is because we are human being.  This will happen because we will be facing more responsibilities which make us to feel stressed and exhausted. But these things don’t mean you don’t care for each other or you stopped loving each other. So, when you feel like you are falling out of love, you no need to feel guilty. There are many ways to bring back the spark of magic in your relationship. I will mention some of the ways in the forthcoming blog.